Cost of Living: 10 Wedding Gift Etiquette Tips

Most people are feeling the financial pinch at the moment and it’s said we are ‘on the brink’ of a
cost of living crisis, but where does that leave you when it comes to giving wedding gifts?

Director of online personalised gift specialists, GiftsOnline4U, Asgar Dungarwalla, said: “The cost of living crisis is hitting a great many people, with bills, essentials and other costs in life spiralling, but it’s important to remember that giving a gift at a wedding is traditionally something people just don’t compromise on.

 

“The question must therefore be, what can we do to still give a couple something special in these trying times? Hopefully our tips will help anyone who is overthinking gifting etiquette at the moment!”

1. Stick to Your Budget

Asgar starts: “It’s essential to establish a budget for yourself and adhere to it. The couple will appreciate any gesture and it’s important to give within your means. Avoid going into debt or feeling financially strained due to wedding gift expectations. A recent YouGov poll has shown that most of the UK says £50-100 is acceptable to spend or give for family or close friends, for someone you are not so close to, £50 or less.”

2. Think About Who You Are Giving To

“There’s no set rule for who gives what, and in what amounts,” says Asgar, “For example, are you giving a small keepsake that’s something to remember somebody by or are you giving a memorable thing people will treasure like a watch, champagne or more extravagant gifts? Tailor the gift to the person, not the cost.”

3. Group Gifts Are Perfectly Acceptable

“Pooling resources with friends or family members to buy a more significant gift can be a practical solution. This approach allows you to give a substantial gift without bearing the entire cost alone. For example, giving more expensive brands of champagne can be a really memorable gift for a couple, but can be beyond most people’s means, clubbing together could well mean more for the happy couple.”

4. Consider Practical Gifts

“In times of economic hardship, practical gifts can be incredibly useful. Items like kitchen appliances, home goods, or even a subscription service can help the couple start their married life on a solid footing. Could you also give something that is unique to you? Are you good at crafting something useful or can you provide a service as a touching gift?”

5. Gift Cards Are a Versatile Option

“Gift cards are a flexible choice that allows the couple to purchase what they genuinely need or desire. Opt for cards from their favourite stores or online retailers. This way, they can use it at their convenience.”

6. Donations to Honeymoon or Home Funds 

“Many couples now set up honeymoon or home funds as an alternative to traditional registries. Contributing to these funds can help the couple create unforgettable memories or establish their home, which can be particularly beneficial during a cost of living crisis.”

7. Don’t Feel Obligated to Match Gift Value to Wedding Cost

“There’s a common misconception that the gift’s value should correspond to the cost per head at the wedding. This is outdated advice. Give a gift that reflects your relationship with the couple and your financial situation, not what you assume the wedding expenses are.”

8. Timing is Flexible

“Traditionally, wedding gifts are given before or on the wedding day, but it’s perfectly acceptable to send your gift after the event. If your finances are tight, waiting a few weeks or even months can give you time to save up for a thoughtful present. It’s the thought that counts after all and if you have to delay or give at a different time, most couples will be understanding.”

9. Personalise When Possible 

“A personalised gift shows thought and effort. Items such as watches, tankards or more photography based gifts can provide sentimental value that outshines their monetary worth. Showing a treasured memory or inscribing something can “

10. Communicate If Necessary

“If the cost of attending the wedding and giving a gift is overwhelming, it’s okay to communicate with the couple. They’ll likely understand your situation. A heartfelt card explaining your circumstances can be just as meaningful as a physical gift.”